Every week, Femail asks two singletons to report on their blind date.
This week, it’s Chloe, 21, and Jasdeep, 23, but it seems romance isn’t there for these two hopefuls…
CHLE, 21 years old
Single for a year.
Past encounters?
I haven’t really done much dating because I was in two fairly long-term “situations” – not really a relationship – for over two years, but that ended about a year ago.
Pre-date nerves?
Yes a little bit. Meeting someone on a blind date isn’t something you do every day and although I’ve been on many first dates, this was all new.
Chloe, 21, has been single for a year and is looking for someone confident and outgoing who dresses well and has something quirky or cool about her.
First impressions?
I thought Jasdeep was a handsome guy who clearly took care of himself. He wore skinny jeans and a gray sweater – casual but stylish. We said hello to each other but I could tell he was quite shy.
Easy to talk to?
I have to be honest; it was hard work and I had to keep the conversation going throughout the appointment. At first he barely spoke.
We started talking about movies, but Jasdeep hadn’t heard of any of the arty movies that I like. However, he is clearly passionate about his studies. He is also close to his family and still lives with them. To be honest, I don’t think he’s really dated anyone before.
Embarrassing moments?
Not really, but her intense shyness made things very awkward throughout the entire date.
Did Sparks steal?
No way. I’m kind of sorry to say this, but there was no attraction. The food took a long time to arrive, which is probably why the date lasted so long. When we finished, we both said, “Okay, shall we go?” “. I was happy to go back to bed.
Goodbye ?
He asked to meet again and out of panic and politeness I said yes, but I feel bad because it won’t happen.
What do you think he thought of you?
I think maybe he was more interested in me as a friend. At the end of the date, we walked to the train station, where he gave me a polite handshake and that was that.
Would your family like it?
They are very outgoing so they would probably scare him. They would think Jasdeep is too calm for me.
JASDEEP, 22 years old
Single for over a year.
Past encounters?
I’ve only had a handful of short-term relationships and I’ve been single for a while. But I’m only 23, so I don’t want to rush into something that doesn’t feel right.
Pre-date nerves?
Yes, I usually meet women through friends, so the idea of a blind date seemed weird to me. When I was waiting for Chloe at the restaurant, I was convinced that she wasn’t going to show up.
Jasdeep, 23, has been single for over a year and would like to meet someone kind, funny and caring who looks like actress Selena Gomez.
First impressions?
I really didn’t know what to expect, but when she walked up to me, smiled and said her name, I thought she was really attractive. Her pants and crop top looked cute and she seemed very friendly too.
Easy to talk to?
I think I was nervous at first. I’m usually pretty confident around women, but I couldn’t think of anything to say. She kept asking me if I was okay and said I looked like I was about to run out the door. After a few minutes we both started to warm up. We discovered we had fitness in common: she’s a swimming instructor and I love the gym. We both love movies. But I like action films while she prefers more arty and independent films. We talked for over two hours, so we must have had a lot to say.
Embarrassing moments?
Just those first few minutes where we both struggled.
Did Sparks steal?
Not for me and I think she’s on the same page. I found her attractive but would only see her as a friend because there was no spark. When you love someone that way, you “know.”
To see her again ?
I don’t think so, even if she was nice. But she lives just on the other side of London, so even a friendship might prove difficult.
What do you think she thought of you?
I think she had a great time and we exchanged details on Instagram so we could keep in touch that way. But I don’t think any of us want to go any further.
Would your family like it?
We are both close with our families but I couldn’t see myself introducing her as anything other than a friend.