People around the world have revealed the simple ‘cheat codes’ they follow in everyday life, and almost anyone can do them.
Learning to listen, say no, speak up, ask for help, and get enough sleep are just a few of the “tricks” that have helped many overcome situations that others struggle with.
Thousands of people took to Reddit to share the secret practices that opened doors for them, helped them feel more confident, and improved their connection with others.
One man said that truly listening to understand and not responding is the real secret to winning people over and that it works for him every time, making relationships very easy.
“This is all the vast majority of people need to get on your side,” he said.
Another thought: Admitting when you made a mistake and being able to ask for forgiveness was another underrated skill that changed your life and made people respect you more.
Setting appropriate boundaries, being able to say no without feeling guilty, making good eye contact, and not being afraid to speak up were also game changers for some.
“Saying no saves you a lot of time, energy and stress,” one said.
Maintaining eye contact, really listening to people, and being nice to everyone are some of the secrets to an easier life according to thousands of people.
“Don’t be afraid to speak up, really. It’s difficult only in some cases, but if you learn it, it will help you a lot in life,” added another.
“Looking into each other’s eyes while you talk, as simple as it may seem, helps with everything,” added a third.
Others thought that dilemmas could be avoided by simply “keeping one’s mouth shut” and taking time to observe what was going on around them.
Many said that learning to stop apologizing for things that don’t require an apology and asking for help when you need it are also effective life hacks.
Some believed that being genuinely interested in people and showing kindness to everyone was another underrated trick to make things easier not only for others, but for yourself as well.
“Being nice to people, even when you don’t have to. Seriously, it’s like a life hack with hidden benefits,” one said.
“Being kind not only helps others, it makes you feel better too, it’s like a cheat code to level up in life and it’s free,” added another.
Others said strong networks and social connections are a “secret map” to opportunities that many miss.
And then there were people who swore that getting a good night’s sleep, exercising daily, taking a shower, a good diet, and cold therapy were simple ways to feel happier, stronger, and more in control.
“Getting enough sleep is like a secret trick for everything: productivity, mood and health,” said one.
“Take a shower when you feel bad about yourself or a little depressed. Take a shower and then go for a walk, get some fresh air. It works wonders,” added another.
“If you hate everyone, eat something; if you hate yourself, take a shower,” added a third.
A man believed that the best trick to living was to be lucky enough to be born into a rich family.
“I think people realize this,” another responded.
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