She’s had six weddings, two annulments and four divorces. But Pamela Anderson tells a Netflix documentary that her first husband, Motley Crue drummer Tommy Lee, was the only man she ever truly loved.
In Pamela, A Love Story, out on Netflix Jan. 31, she says to her son, Brandon, “I really loved your dad for all the right reasons and I don’t really think I’ve ever loved anyone else.” it’s ****ed.
She adds: ‘I think I’d rather be alone than not be with the father of my kids. I think it’s impossible for me to be with anyone else…but I don’t think I can be with Tommy either. It is almost like punishment.
Anderson, 55, was married to Lee from 1995 to 1998. They married on a beach in Cancun, Mexico after four days of engagement.
Pamela Anderson tells a Netflix documentary that her first husband, Motley Crue drummer Tommy Lee, was the only man she ever truly loved.
The marriage ended after Lee assaulted her while she was carrying their six-week-old son, Dylan. He was sentenced to six months in prison.
In the film, she’s candid about her romantic disasters — from her early love interest whom she caught washing his penis in the sink (she wrote in her memoir “Fish” to her twice-married husband, Rick Salomon.
The first time around the union ended after she said she found his crack pipe in a Christmas tree. “He still denies to this day that it is his,” she says.
She also claims that actor Sylvester Stallone offered her a love contract. They were dated in 1989 between Stallone’s second and third marriages.
Anderson, 55, was married to Lee from 1995 to 1998. They famously got married on a beach in Cancun, Mexico after four days of courtship.
“He offered me a condo and a Porsche to be his first girl and I was like, ‘Does that mean there’s a second girl?'” Anderson said. – Surah Noah ah’. And he’s like: “That’s the best offer you’ll ever get honey, you’re in Hollywood now.” But I really wanted to fall in love, and I wanted nothing less.
Overall, Anderson has had six weddings, two annulments and four divorces in her life
Other fans include actors Mario Van Peebles, Scott Baio, and David Charvet. At one point in the documentary, she reads an entry in her journal that says, ‘I woke up at Marius’, went home to change, then went to Scott’ and laughs, ‘Why am I even writing that because God forbid you? Documentary and find out what kind of bitch you are!
There are beautiful words for surfer Kelly Slater, but he was astonished to discover that his girlfriend, whom he was preparing to fly to Florida to meet with his family, had married someone else: Tommy Lee.
Anderson tells the story of their romance for a laugh, noting that she barely knew Lee, and asked him what their married name was (she thought it was Tommy Lee Jones, confusing him with the actor).
On their first night together, she had a champagne ecstasy, and the night was a “big happy haze”.
“What was different about Tommy,” she says, “was there were no secrets, there was no deception, there was no game play, it was really a heart-to-heart with an explosive kind of love.” We didn’t know anything about each other and it ended up being one of the sweetest love affairs ever.
The marriage ended after Lee assaulted Anderson while she was carrying their six-week-old son, Dylan. He was sentenced to six months in prison
She was devastated after losing her first child to a miscarriage while filming Barb Wire. And after the birth of the eldest son, Brandon, there were “red flags” in the behavior of Lee, whom she calls: “a talented romantic and a drunkard.”
He was jealous, which she found ‘cute’ and would appear on Baywatch and stand in her line of sight if she had romances. After she kisses an actor in a storyline, he destroys her trailer on set.
She said the changes in family life made her husband feel left out, and in 1998 a fight came that ended the marriage.
“I think Tommy went through a little bit of postpartum… Tommy was going, I want my wife back, I want my wife back. At that point I didn’t know what to do.
You just said, ‘I need some help here, you have to grow up. It’s not about you anymore. I’ve never spoken to him like that before. I didn’t recognize him. It became black and then I started breathing excessively and scared. Brandon was shaking and screaming and grabbing my leg, so I called 911 and turned off the receiver.
“What was different about Tommy was that there were no secrets, there was no deception, there was no game playing, it was really a heart-to-heart kind of explosive love,” Anderson said.
He was arrested and charged with abusing his wife and children after he grabbed her by the arm and kicked her across the back, causing her to fall. Lee pleaded no contest to the felony spousal battery and was sentenced to six months in prison.
Lee later said he believed she pressed charges because she “wanted an easy way out of a difficult situation.”
There were rumors that they might remarry in 1999, and in 2005 he told me that they were together again.
On the Netflix show, Anderson is pictured sifting through a stack of letters he wrote to her from prison. He really fought to stay together. I had to fork out the divorce because he wasn’t going to sign the papers. But it wasn’t a gray area for me – you can’t do that.
She wrote in her diary: ‘I have never loved a person so deeply and by deeply I mean I have loved his soul. I feel like a part of me has died. Their collaboration was never easy, she says, as Lee’s subsequent husbands disliked it.
I guess all it has to do with it is that I haven’t gotten over my inability to make it work with the father of my kids.
Although I thought I could start a family again or fall in love with someone else, it’s not just me.
I think this is the most likely cause of failure in all of my relationships. My parents were wild and crazy and hurt each other and hurt us, but now they are happy.
With Kid Rock, she did not experience the “madness” of her romance with Tommy Lee. She doesn’t even mention her brief marriage to movie mogul Jon Peters.
Her last husband, builder Dan Hayhurst, was fired within a few moments. “He’s a good Canadian guy,” she says. natural. I felt like I might need to try that out. I don’t know. Sometimes I don’t know if I’m alive or dead. I like to live a romantic life every day.
‘She loves marriage,’ says Ibn Dylan. You know, this is probably her favorite thing in the world.
Pamela, A Love Story, is coming to Netflix from January 31st.