Abbie Chatfield has been branded “stingy” and “tight a**” after admitting she doesn’t give newlyweds gifts at weddings.
The former Bachelor star, 29, shared a video on TikTok last week discussing the expectation that wedding guests give more generously than on birthdays.
‘First of all, I didn’t know wedding gifts were mandatory. Birthday gifts are not mandatory. You know what I mean?’ she said.
‘Baby shower, I actually get it, because you’re having a baby, you need things.
Abbie then argued that the high cost of weddings should not dictate the generosity of gifts and suggested that if guests find the financial demands of attending a wedding too high, they should not be invited.
‘It’s not my fault you decided to spend $70,000 on a wedding. Why do I owe you one? “Then don’t invite me,” he added.
‘I also come from a family that doesn’t have much present. So this all seems very strange to me. In fact, I’m shocked. 100 dollars is a lot of money, right?
Disgruntled fans responded to the comments, assuring Abbie that it’s “normal” to often pay gift money to cover someone’s seat at the reception.
Abbie Chatfield has been branded “stingy” and “tight a**” after admitting she doesn’t give newlyweds gifts at weddings.
‘Weddings cost $200 per person and I’m being conservative. So $150-$200 for a head covering gift is pretty normal,” one user wrote.
In another video, Abbie responded to the commenter’s expectation of making a financial contribution to a wedding and questioned why she should pay for someone else’s nuptials.
She said if the bride or groom-to-be values her presence, she should attend out of love, not because she is expected to cover the costs.
‘Why am I paying for your wedding? Why am I paying for someone else’s wedding? he asked the follower.
‘Either you want me there because you love me and therefore I shouldn’t be expected to pay for your wedding and contribute, like I’m fucking Groupon, or like I’m fucking GoFundMe, or you just want me there and you’re trying to get numbers to try to pay for the wedding you wanted.
The former Bachelor star, 29, shared a video on TikTok last week discussing the expectation that wedding guests give more generously than on birthdays. He then argued that the high cost of weddings should not dictate the generosity of gifts.
Abbie went on to criticize the wedding guests who contributed to the wedding expenses, describing it as “shameful” and inappropriate.
“I’ve never been to a wedding where people are expected to pay their dues. Like, That’s so fucking embarrassing. I’m so sorry. That’s so embarrassing for everyone involved.
“And if you want to have that wedding, then you should pay for it and expect nothing in return.”
Abbie went on to criticize the wedding guests who contributed to the wedding expenses, describing it as “shameful” and inappropriate.
Fans fumed in the comments, saying that giving money has nothing to do with ‘paying for someone’s wedding,’ but rather giving it away as part of a new chapter in their lives as a couple.
‘You don’t see it as ‘paying for someone’s wedding’, it’s not that… it’s a gift, as they are starting their new life and as a friend or family member you will surely want to give them something,’ someone said. saying.
“It’s strange, the average wedding costs $65,000 in Australia and even $150 given away per head wouldn’t cover that.” “It’s like coming to a party empty-handed, most people bring a plate or drinks, it’s pretty simple,” wrote another.
Disgruntled fans responded to the comments, assuring Abbie that it’s “normal” to often pay gift money to cover someone’s seat at the reception.
‘Disagree. If you go out to dinner, you pay for it. If your friend turns 30, do you buy him a nice gift? Personally, I think putting up $150 is etiquette and gratitude in my opinion,” one fan commented.
Meanwhile, comedian Jon-Bernard Kairouz’s grandmother chimed in and called her a “tight ass.”
“It’s good to help the young couple… It’s not good not to help,” he said.
‘You are embarrassing! Just give them a couple of 100 (dollars). Don’t be stingy.
Abbie is currently dating Peking Duk frontman Adam Hyde and recently revealed her sexual issues while promoting a new pleasure kit designed for bedroom exploration.
sit with Body and soul For an Instagram video, Abbie was asked a series of spicy questions.
Choosing between being blindfolded or handcuffed, Abbie said excitedly, “Oh, blindfolded.” I like not knowing what’s going to happen next.
‘Also, minimal administration. “I don’t have to do anything because I can’t,” he added.
The next question asked Abbie to choose between a vibrator and a butt plug, and she said she would choose ‘a vibrating butt plug’ if she had the choice.
When asked if she would prefer normal sex every day or amazing sex once a week, Abbie immediately said the latter.
“But I have amazing sex four times a day, so I don’t really relate to that,” she added.
Elsewhere, the real estate star said she loves public displays of affection, and revealed that her boyfriend Adam Hyde “licks my neck during dinner.”
