A woman who found out that the man she met online was married reveals she messaged his wife

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Woman who found out the man she met online was married says she’s ‘ashamed’ after messaging his wife to tell her what happened – but would YOU want to know?

  • The woman found that the man she met online who ‘really liked’ was married
  • After “a few drinks,” she messaged his wife to tell her what had happened
  • She said she was “ashamed” and others agreed that she behaved “horribly.”
  • However, some argued that it was correct to tell the woman because she should know

A woman who discovered a man she met online was married and shared a divisive post revealing how she messaged his wife to tell her the truth.

The woman, presumably from the UK, explained Mumsnet she had met the guy on the dating app and thought he was single. The pair never met, but they had exchanged messages and photos.

After discovering that he was married, the woman ended the online flirtation. However, she later took it upon herself to message his wife and declare him an impostor.

The woman, believed to be from the UK, explained to Mumsnet that she had met the man on the dating app and thought he was single.  The pair never met, but had messaged.  Stock image

The woman, believed to be from the UK, explained to Mumsnet that she had met the man on the dating app and thought he was single. The pair never met, but had messaged. Stock image

The woman shared her story in a Mumsnet post that sparked debate as to whether it was best to tell the man's wife

The woman shared her story in a Mumsnet post that sparked debate as to whether it was best to tell the man's wife

The woman shared her story in a Mumsnet post that sparked debate as to whether it was best to tell the man’s wife

“Now I feel so guilty for ruining this poor woman’s life and I wish I had never said anything,” she wrote. ‘It was a stupid impulse after I had a few drinks and wish I could take them back.

‘I see she read it, but she hasn’t responded. I keep thinking about what I did and feel warm with shame. Why was I so stupid and destructive? ‘

The post turned out to be divisive, with some users hitting the woman’s “ horrible ” behavior.

One of them wrote: ‘Do you really think his wife will leave him because of some random messages from a stranger ??!

The post turned out to be divisive, with some users hitting the woman's `` horrible '' behavior

The post turned out to be divisive, with some users hitting the woman's `` horrible '' behavior

The post turned out to be divisive, with some users hitting the woman’s “ horrible ” behavior

“She will probably be anxious, stressed and very unhappy now if she hadn’t been there before! You didn’t even meet him in person, so why bother ?! I always look at the motive of the act and your motive was quite vengeful! ‘

Another wrote: ‘I can’t believe how many people say this was the right thing to do! I don’t believe it is right to get involved in other people’s lives in this way and you have never met that man ?! ‘

A third added: ‘I’m not trying to make you feel bad OP, but personally this is something I could never do as the consequences for wife and children can be huge, I just couldn’t live with myself. ‘

However, others urged the woman not to punish herself, arguing that the man had already ruined the marriage by choosing to have an affair

However, others urged the woman not to punish herself, arguing that the man had already ruined the marriage by choosing to have an affair

However, others urged the woman not to punish herself, arguing that the man had already ruined the marriage by choosing to have an affair

However, others urged the woman not to punish herself, arguing that the husband had already ruined the marriage by choosing to have an affair.

One wrote, “The woman won’t thank you, but I think you definitely did the right thing. She probably suspected it. There’s nothing worse than being the last to know. ‘

A second posted: ‘I think you did the right thing. I don’t know why people say you shouldn’t get involved, he literally got you involved by having an emotional affair.

‘I would much rather know if I was cheated on, it saves shame and shame further down the road. It is very likely that he has done it before and will do it again. ‘

Several people told the woman that it had been the right choice and that the woman would probably be grateful in the long run

Several people told the woman that it had been the right choice and that the woman would probably be grateful in the long run

Several people told the woman that it had been the right choice and that the woman would probably be grateful in the long run

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